Women: good or bad!!

Anyone can be good or bad as per his or her nature. Right??

Unfortunately, this is wrong 🤐.

why??

Because this applies only to males and that too when their behavior is judged against the other male only. If it’s against their female partner or colleagues or mother or sister then it’s always he is right and she is wrong.

like that this quote says that- our looks towards a strong lady like a cheater /bad /characterless person because they don’t know what is the other way to control her and they cannot see her go ahead because their ego hurts. At times I find that how weak their ego is that gets hurt every now and then, then what is the point of keeping it and that is why Indian Society is going backwards because they are busy in relationships their ego everytime and connect focus on the growth as human being.

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  1. There is generation upon generation of broken, unaffirmed men. They grow up wrong. They are bred wrong. Society influences them in a toxic way. They are taught wrong things like men don’t cry, men can’t seek help, because it’s “weakness”, so they walk around with unaddressed issues, ready to explode. Some do explode.

    Some womanize and make a lot of money and think that makes them a man. Real righteous character and integrity makes a real man.
    Fathers have not learned this. Fathers are not teaching their boys this. There are not enough sound mentors counseling boys and men, focusing on these issues.

    So broken men are just walking around. wreaking havoc on the women in their lives, and some women don’t know better than to marry or date them, so these problems are not getting addressed.

    Men need healing themselves, and then to speak up and address other men about what they learned. They need to publicly rebuke chauvinism and show a better examples They need to teach other men and boys to respect and value women.

    Girls and women need to be taught not to put up with misbehaving men. Some men have no incentive to act right, because no matter how they act, they can always get girlfriends or get married. Women have been affirming men’s bad behavior for a very long time, and this needs to stop.

    Father absenteeism and abuse is the problem. Generation upon generation of emotionally, physically, and spiritually absent fatherhood is producing broken boys and men. This helps to create a broken society, as women marry these broken men and begin broken families with them.

    Yet, so many men run from changing for the better. They deflect. They blame others. They find women who will put up with them. Plenty women will put up with it, unfortunately. Women have been conditioned to settle for less, beginning in childhood when as girls, we learn “boys will be boys.” That is the beginning of the programming of women to be too tolerant of bad behavior in men.
    Healthy men need to stop being silent and help train other men to get them on the right path.

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    1. You are absolutely right dear…. Actually the weakness of men is the danger to the society because I have perceived it closely that men in the in the joint families are not happy if the females try to be happy together and then they are blamed that women cannot be united or they only pull each other’s legs. And I am fond of your enormous observation abilities as you said “So broken men are just walking around. wreaking havoc on the women in their lives” This is what is visible everywhere and the worst part is that none (neither they themselves nor the females around them) are either not able to see or do not wanna accept the fact as out society sees sharing of emotions or stories of struggles as weakness rather they make us stronger and the next generation gets wiser having known these things. Also yes “Women have been affirming men’s bad behavior for a very long time, and this needs to stop.” It must happen as soon as possible.
      Yes, the worst thing is “men will be men” even the highest of the education could not change it nor the law enforcing agencies are that sound especially in India, they somehow end up forcing females to tolerate with the abusive men and try suppress their rights and legitimate the violence against women in the name of religion or culture. I can share you many stories of people who are highly educated or are staying outside the country for years and still consider themselves to be Gods of their wives while trying to own them like a doll and in case she tries to be their partner or a friend they start taking it as a threat to their ownership over them. 
      Thanks for sharing the valuable views dear.

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      1. Oh my. 🤦🏾‍♀️
        You are so right. Truth is out there, and I think people don’t want to see it, and don’t take it seriously because women are the ones suffering.

        These men are sick. Such evil. And women can be so naive and have such low standards and don’t value themselves.

        Thank you for elaborating, and appreciating my long, rambling comments. 😊

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  2. Wow – that meme is so sad. So many men are so scared, it seems. Why are they afraid of strong women? Are they worried that they’re not good enough that women will only stay with them if they’re dependent on them? I would feel awful if I thought the only way a woman would be with me was that they were unable to make it on their own. On the other hand, when a strong woman loves you, it is like a blessing. I hope more men come to recognize this.

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    1. Absolutely true!! You have a beautiful heart. I too wish that more men could think like this and they could actually feel blessed with the love.
      The truth in the back of the mind is the fear which you indicated rightly but they show it in the sense that what is the need for a woman to work, they are meant to bear and raise babies and do the household things and have to beg for money so that they realize that men are bread earners and are more important to the family and the women are therefore supposed to follow them and keep mum in the decisions for family.
      I wonder and feel pity for those men who decide for women without telling them and expect that they will be puppet of their fingers but when women happen to ask them question about that their tiny ego gets hurt 🤐🤐
      And also feel pity at those who feel satisfied in their life when they torture their wives showing them authority that they own them but the reality is that they are so frustrated with the patriarchal system that they don’t know how to release their emotions and then they cannot make any moral way to go ahead due to their narrow mindset, even if they earn a lot never live a happy life coz they try to find happiness in an inhuman way.
      🤐🤐

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      1. All so true – and so sad. Another sad thing is that men don’t realize what a happy life they could have if they treated their partner as equals. They are quite literally fighting the thing that could make their life so much happier and more peaceful. May more and more men come to realize this in the future.

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        1. Absolutely true… I wish more male could understand this… When I look around even in my generation I find some are really enjoying their life but most are going through the dilemma within as they watch movies and want to live happily like that but they think women’s freedom is what they give and if they start making their own decisions then they are out of their control. I don’t understand why they cannot accept their wives with a mobile when they know she loves only then him and when the wife laughs some of them don’t hesitate to comment on their character and if she talks to people around with a smile which is normal then some try to call them a slut or bitch or something like this derogatory remark which is really shocking among the so called educated elites 🤯🙊🙈🙉

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