That’s true

When a man is tired he goes to woman

when he is broken he goes to her

when he is bored here goes to her

that shows it is she who saves him from all this also repairs her broken ego and prepares him for the next day but he still has to try the same ego on her only coz cannot show on the boss 🙈🙉🙊

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  1. This reminds me of a beautiful article I loved to read, titled: Be Artistic by T T Rangrajan. Sharing a portion of the same here:
    “Existence has purposefully created man and women a little incomplete so that they could embrace each other and make it complete. However, centuries of conditioning have given the terms ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ a very narrow connotation. It has shrunk the scope of this relationship. Drop the words husband and wife from your vocabulary and resolve to be ‘friends for a life time’. Then both the man and the woman sometimes play the mother, sometimes the father, sometimes a cranky kid, then the mentor, the teacher, the mirror…. And sometimes husband and wife too. Expand the definition of this relationship and keep it open.”

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    1. Rachana says:

      You are absolutely right Sir, it is actually the fact that nature has made us dependent on each other and to co-exist we need to fulfill each other… the same way as we need both of them to grow our generations and they have their roles, one is strong in physique the other in brain or management.
      Both actually compliment each other and when the one tries to control the other the whole equation gets disturbed. And this is why the opposite of Patriarchy is not Matriarchy rather it is equality.
      Thanks for the kind explanation in the precise words.

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  2. That’s exactly what happens in a relationship….

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  3. Colonel B S Nagial(Retd) says:

    May not be true. Both Man and Woman are identical different. And for their existence are dependent on each other mutually.

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    1. Rachana says:

      Yeah you are absolutely right… But that applies only for those very few who understand that and in countries like India you will rarely find anyone who even supports his daughter but not his wife the same way

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      1. Colonel B S Nagial(Retd) says:

        Yes, it is a matter of difference of opinions. Thanks

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    1. Rachana says:

      Thank you so much dear

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  4. kinge says:

    The woman becomes the outlet and he forgets about her emotion, sad. It should be a balance both being there for one another.

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    1. Rachana says:

      Absolutely… That’s the way to make life beautiful… I just cannot even imagine how can one not understand a person’s feelings who lives with him or her 24*7 and gives up her family for him but because nothing changed for him he doesn’t wanna care for her 🤐

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      1. kinge says:

        It’s called the ego. It blinds us to so many things. Disconnecting us from our true selves and we become strangers to good values and more familiar with vices.

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        1. Rachana says:

          Absolutely… Thanks for the reflections🙏😊

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  5. Navin says:

    True….however ego has no soul….and no form….man or a woman, it goes both ways, you know…..I do get your writing though

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    1. Rachana says:

      Yeah you are right absolutely… But mostly in husband and wife husband does that

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      1. Navin says:

        It could be possible….very much depends on culture as well….I can picture that scenario though

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        1. Rachana says:

          Yeah… But you know here is a twist again… We rarely realize it unless it happens with our family members… Or unless we get married… I saw so many things after my friends revealed so many things and I started observing things from their side as well… Otherwise from outside everything seems normal

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          1. Navin says:

            Oh, I’ve noticed that myself as well when I used to live in India….almost “ghar-ghar ki kahani”….but that scene can be for both women & men (partners) in European countries….that’s what I was trying to convey….

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          2. Rachana says:

            Yeah you are right

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    1. Rachana says:

      thank you so much
      😊🙏

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